RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS TEENS GO THROUGH

 

At every age one goes through some or the other problems,and as the child grows and reach their teen age, there are relationship problems which they go through.If relationship problems in teens not solved at the right time than it may also lead to some severe problems ahead.

Lets discuss some of the relationship problems that a teenage goes through and how we can solve it :-

1. Lack of support from parents :-  There may be conflicts between the parents and the teenage children on many things, some parents may have problems with their children if they are in any  love affair.

Some teenage problems would be if they tend to ask any thing, parents at times deny.Denial from parents could be because their children is asking for a costlier gift and more of expenses at home.

When there are lot of denial by parents to their teenage children, there tends to be a relationship problems between the children and parents.Teens at such moments start thinking that their parents don't love them.And parents tend to complain that their children is not ready to understand.

Solutions :- If parents are against the love affair :-

Always respect what parents have said, since they have seen life more than you, and for everything there is time.Don't misunderstand your parents, ultimately they want you to be in save hands if you are into any love relationship.

So wait for the right time.Don't take hasty decisions when comes to love.

If parents are not able to give costlier gift :-

As a teen we tend to get inflence by our friends,and if your friend tends to have some costlier gift, than even we want it.Before asking any costlier gift from your parents, always see how your parents are doing when comes to their job.If they happen to earn good, they will afford to give you the best.

 If your parents income is not good, as their child one needs to understand.As a teen when you meet such friends, who shows up too much, and if you think  you may get influenced than maintain your distance with such friends.

2. Cheating in love :-

Cheating in love has now become a common problem among the teenagers.There are many teenage who cheats with their partners and they enjoy doing it.

Solution :- Learn to choose your love partner when you are in love.Don't just love a person because of the challenges that you had among your group friends to get into love affair.Respect have trust and love your partner.

3. Lack of Maturity :-

As a teenage many makes a  wrong decision while in love affair.There are many who tends to take impulsive decisions when someone proposes them, one way because in their friends circle everyone are into affair and they are not, so at times there are many who tends to yes to a love relationhip without knowing more in detail about the individual.

After getting into the relationship than one gets to know that their partner is very abusive, short tempered and very negative.Lack of maturity is the problem which many teenage goes through in their life.

Solutions :- Learn to choose well your partner whenever you are in a love relationships.Be matured to understand how a true partner needs to be.They need to be loving, caring,trustworthy,supportive and positive.Don't get influence by your friends and jump into a relationship without knowing a person well. 

4. Handling Break up :- 

Going through a break - up, if things are not working well, between you and your partner, and if there is a lot of arguments and fights on every small things, its better to be just friend rather than being into a relationship.

If you need a space in a relationship and if you are not getting one,better to clear up the things with your partner if still things are not working between two better to part way in a positive way and be as a friend.

Solutions :- There are many who likes to have space and which they don't seems to get when they are into a love relationship.There are many who when into relationships tends to be dominating resulting into arguments,fights and not talking to each other for days.

If you feel your relationshp is going through a stress, speak to your partner what you need, if still things are not going right than its better to be just friends rather being into stress. 

5. Seeking Attention :- 

There are many teens who tries to seek attention from others to get a partner.One tends to dress up well,tries to see if they can get someone special.But they fail to get one and may go through stress.

Solution :- There is always a right time for everything, There is no harm in trying to seek attention, but still if you don't get one, always be optimistic and positive in life, that there is someone special waiting for you.At the right time you will get everything, so relax and stay positive.

6. Not getting love in return :-

There are many teenagers who show their interest and have feelings towards a person, but in return they don't seems to get back.Such teenagers who does not seems to get love in return may go through stress and at times may also go through depression.

Solution :- As said above someone is always made for someone,and at its right time you will get it.There is no use taking stress for not getting attention or love in return.Be positive.

7. First love :- 

There are many teenagers when they get their first love, they go to the extend to ensure their partner is happy.There are many now a days who have sex by not taking  safety precautions and later land into  problem.There are teenage girls at an early age tend to get pregnant because of unprotective sex .

Some either go for abortion, some takes care of the child when born, and some gives the child in an orphanage.There has been situations when the girl gets pregnant at times the teenage boy supports and at times there are some, who don't support and breaks up the relationship.

Solution :- It is very important when you are in love not to give yourself totally were later you have to repent.True love is not sex.True love is to be supportive and be there for each other whenever required.

Conclusion :-  To have a better relationship is all upto us.The way we think, the way we take our decisions,being positive always will help us, to have a good relationship with our parents as well as with our partner.

Do not be jealous, be happy for others and have a postive nature, you will definately get someone to love you.If not now, may be later wait at its right time you will get it.