1. 1. LISTENING :-
L Listening in any relationship is
very important, when you listen well, most of the problems get resolved .At the
earlier stage of love or into relationship, we tend to listen, but most of the
problems starts when we get totally committed either by marrying someone or
into living relationship.
Listening is very important,there are work
pressures time to time,and if one is married and have children than things get
more difficult if you don’t have someone to take care of the child , and if
husband and wife both are working than there seems to be problem most of the
time, and each one may complain about their side of problem.
Listening time to time will help the
relationship grow.
2. 2. Open about yourself :-
It Open about yourself, it is very important to
share about yourself when you are into a relationship just to ensure your
current relationship does not have a problem.There are many who don’t open up
about themselves, later when they get into a relationship and tend to marry,
the spouse comes to know about the previous affairs which is still going on
after marriage, or too much into debt which was not told before marriage, and
in some cases there are people who have earlier married and again got married.
Such things affect the relationship and
hence it is essential to open up about
yourself, not hiding anything about the things which can later be a hindrance
or a problem in your relationship.
3. Respect
and love:-
Respect and love your partner whether you are married or not
yet married.When you are into a relationship it is always necessary to give
love and respect to your partner for the things that that they do in your
life.No person is bad into this world it is the situation that makes a person
bad if they tend to be among the bad circle of friends and if they are with
good circle of friends, things will be good.
Always be loving to your partner in the bad
times or when your partner in in depression show your support to them by
telling them, you are still there for them no matter how bad the
situations is.Show your partner with
your actions by really being there whenever they need you.
4. Trust :- Trust is an important part in a
relationship.If you trust your partner no one will be able to break your
relationship. There are many at times, people tend to get negatively influenced by others and breaks their love
relationships. For example :- if you are into a love relationship with your
partner.One fine day one of your friend comes and tells you i happen to see
your lover or your spouse with another
person talking for a long time and i feel there is something fishy.
If you really trust your partner, you will
tell your friend, i know my spouse or partner well he/she will never do
anything wrong which can affect our relationship.
But if there is lack of trust in a relationship,
the person after coming to know, will try keeping close watch on their partner
where they are going.Will keep calling to check when they are
out, will keep checking the mobiles of the partner hidingly.Such things
affects relationship.Trust is an important element.
5. No or less correction :- There are many people
when into relationships, they don’t like anyone correcting.Too much of
correction may affect the relationship.Do not correct more if your partner or
spouse don’t like being correcting always.
6. Appreciate :-
Learn to appreciate your partner
or spouse from time to time.When you appreciate for anything and
everything.Example for cooking good food, or after giving you a nice gift.
7. Good in love making :-
Making love is important in a
relationship.So everything that you do has a link, when you trust your partner
well, with not much correction you will be able to respect and love your
partner, so when you love your partner, you will appreciate your partner from
time to time.
When you appreciate well, you will be able
to make love with your partner from time to time well.And when you are good in making
love, your relationship will also become more strong.
8. Control of anger :- In every relationship, controlling
anger is also very important to ensure
there are no problems or fights in a relationship. Anger can break up the relationship.
9. Respect for all :- Respecting everyone from your
partner’s or spouse relatives is also very important.When you respect your
in-laws, cousins and relatives, you will also be respected and loved by all.
10. Respect your partner’s decision :- There are
times when your partner or spouse took some decision whether relating to any
work but it goes wrong.
Instead of complaining and argueing tell
your partner or spouse, never mind, whatever bad had to happen its already
done,what is really important is, you had the gut’s to try something new.You
can learn from your mistakes and again try and i am sure this time you won’t go
wrong.
11. 11.Give personal space : - Give personal space to
your partner or spouse, don’t keep interfering
and telling them what needs to be done and what not.
By now your partner is matured, so give
space.Do not try to dictate things as per your ways for better relationship.
12. Protect and care :-
Always protect and care your
partner whenever needed.Example if your partner is not well, be there to take
care by taking your partner to the doctor, and not letting your partner do any
work, just telling them to take rest,will make a strong bond in your
relationship.
13. Avoid being possessive :- Do not spoil your
relationship with your partner by being too possessive.Possessiveness affects
relationship, there are too many fights and arguments over small small things,
since you be always be doubting your partner, if they happen to go alone out
and come come late.
If on mobile there are someone else photo
with you, without knowing if that photo is of just a casual friend or relative,
there are individuals who tend to doubt and later there are divorces because of
too much of possessiveness.
14. Forgiveness :-
Forgiveness is a very important part of a relationship.If you know the
art of forgiveness, you may not have any problems in your relationships since
you will forgive and move ahead.
15. Communication :- Timely communication with your
partner during the day atleast if possible once or twice if not more, will
improve your communication and bond in a relationship with your partner.
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