You Always have a Choice

 

In our life we all have a choice.The choice which we take decides our present as well as future.Some take risk in life to progress, and others with no dreams, move ahead in their life how it takes them.

But whatever decisions that we take in our life, moulds us either for today, and for better tomorrow, or for the worst.

We cannot blame others, if the decisions taken by you, turn out to be worst or something bad happens.We cannot cry, and go into depression, by taking stress,and keep thinking over and over again, blaming the opposite person who gave you advice.

Others will always give you advice, sometimes it turns out to be a good advice,and sometimes bad.Do not hold on to it, things go wrong.The choice that we make even after someone advicing solely depend on us.You always have a choice.

We are matured enough to understand how life is all about.Each one in their life has their own cross to carry.Always believe in the things that you do,and be positive about it to accomplish it.

You alone are responsible for the choices that you do in life, so whether it is,concerning marriage or your career.

There are many when comes to marriage, they take advice from horoscope experts regarding their relationship, how it is going to be after marriage,whether it will be a success or there will be problems.

Horoscope can never decide or guarantee you of anything, it can give you a generalised statement and it is upto us,how we take it.There are many marriages which has resulted in divorces even after consulting a horoscope expert.

If there are problems in marriages,it is mostly due to lack of forgiveness or some other reasons,but it solely depends on the choices that you take.It is your choice to forgive and move ahead in your relationship or take a divorce and stay seperate so its your choice.

Never feel guilty and take stress, and go into depression if the choices that you take turn out to be wrong.Always be optimistic in life.Whatever happens it happens for good.

Below is the story of Peter who is close to his dad, and to get his dream job, he goes for an interview rather going to see his dad in the hospital.

This Story is about a young teenage boy named Peter who was waiting to get his dream job after he completed his software engineering.

It was early 🌄 morning,Peter wanted to go for a job interview.Its been more than 6 months sitting at home and looking for his dream job. Its 1st december 1991, Peter while having  his breakfast he gets a call from a software company which he had applied asking him to come for an interview today. Peter gets ready to go out,for his dream job interview.

                    As he stepped out of his 🏠 house, and as he was about to sit in his car, his mobile rang and got to know from one of his family,that his dad's accident took place and he is admited in the hospital.

Now he had to take a choice,should he go for the interview, or go to see his dad in the hospital. He was really close to his dad.But he thought someone from his family will be there so he will go for the interview.

He reached the office,where interviews were conducted.Almost the entire day went,he  cleared  his first round of interview,and was informed to come next day early,for a final round of interview.

He got tired the whole day at the office, now he got out of the office first thing he called his mom who was at the hospital, she said dad is very serious and  asked him, if he is coming.He told his mom he very tired today and will come tomorrow after his interview.

Next day peter got ready,and was very anxious and excited for the job,as well as sad since dad was in the hospital. He reached office,his interview started and he got selected.He was happy for his job, and sad because his dad is serious.

Peter reached hospital but he got to know his dad is no more he is dead.There were tears in his eyes,he could not stop his tears.

He thought to himself my dad struggled since yesterday, maybe i should have not gone for the interview.

Peter could not sleep properly for few days and he was feeling guilty, about what has happened.

He  kept asking himself did he do it right,by not going to the hospital to be with his dad. He felt low,and called office he will not be coming to office since his dad is deceased.

Peter kept himself closed for few days, in his bedroom, and started seeing his photos with dad and started crying.Peter watched few old videos of his and dad.Its been a week now since his dad died,and what is disturbing is, he was not there close to dad during his last moment.

Peter decided will not join his dream work,will go to office tomorrow and give his resignation.Peter called his  mom and told her would like to talk to her,as she came in his room he could not hold his tears,he hugged his  mom and started crying.

Peter told mom that he is  going to put his resignation.Mom asked why?.Told mom he feels guilty and it is because of this job, he was not able to see his dad in the hospital.

Mom told peter, i understand your dad is no more and you feel for him,and you are sad about it.But that does not mean that you give up in your life.

You always have a choice but what ever choice that you decide and take you should not be feeling guilty,or it may,keep bothering you life long.

Mom told peter your dad was very serious after accident and he was in ICU.Peter's mom told him no one from the family got a chance to talk to your dad,since 2 days your dad was in ICU and later died in ICU.

Mom told peter don't be guilty, said you did not do anything wrong,you called me asking about your dad which means you were concern about your dad.

Mom told peter his dad will be happy though he is dead now,but he may see you and feel proud that his son is working for a good company.

Peter gets confidence and feels nice after hearing her mom speak to him positively.

Peter joins job in few days,slowly and gradually Peter gets mixed with office colleague and later slowly starts to take life in a positive way.

Life will always give you a chance to make a choice.The choice that we make decides our stress level, and decides our present and future life.

Never regret for the choices that you make or else you may go through stress,always think positive and see what you have learnt from your failures.

So move ahead in your life,and take better choices to progress in your  life.