TRUST - The Game Changer Of Life

 

In life we go through many confusion,and when we get confused we tend to take wrong decisions and later repent.There are many who get confused with Trust and Believe as one, though they may sound like having the same meaning but  there is a lot of difference between them, and once you know the difference i am sure it will change your life for sure.

TRUST means to confidently believe in the ability of someone.Believe means to accept something as true or real.Still confused let me explain in more detail with a story :- 

In a small town there lived a stuntsman named Peter, who used to do stunts and earn for a living.In one of his stunts which he carried out for a small budget film which he did on a bike went wrong and met with a severe accident went in coma and effecting his spine.Almost after 9 months peter came out of coma, was still facing problem in standing was discharged from hospital and was taken home.

Peter took another 8 months to fully recover and by the time he got recovered he was too much in debt.Again tried looking out for some flims to get a job, another 3 months went after recovery but no job, was finding it difficult for him to put food on the table for his family.Peter had to take care of  his 2 children son and a daughter and wife.

Peter was behind in all of his bills, electricity,gas,credit cards  and so on.One day on television he seen an ad called " believe and do it " and who ever does it will get $2,00,000. Peter decided he will do it.

The task was a person need to come down from a newly 100 storey building from top of the building till down.The format of the game was a child need to hold on the back of the person and come down togather without falling.Entry fee was $200.Peter some how arranged money by selling some stuff from his home.

There were almost more than 120 entries to participate.and it was 15th Jan 2016  early morning 10:00am .There were lot of people to see who is going to win.And the game started in half many people gave up, since their children who was sitting on their back started crying so had to give up.

Finally peter's turn comes, his son sits on peter's back, and slowly and gradually peter on a single rope manages to reach safely down along with his 12 years old son.

The people who were gathered all clapped for peter and his son.There were media, so one of the spokesperson asked peter how did you do it, you did not get scared.Peter replied i trust my god and i knew he was there to strengthen him.

Peter asked the people who were gathered and clapped, do everyone believe that he can do it again from rooftop 100th floor to ground, everyone said shouting yes we all believe you can do it.So peter went and called one person up on the stage who said he could do it again.

When the person came on stage all the media and photographers eyes were on the stage, so peter asked the man his name " Man said henry". Peter asked henry once again on the stage do you believe i can do this act right from 100 floor till ground again,Henry said yes, i believe you can do it again, so peter said this time lets do a little twist, i will do it again and asked henry does he has any children he said one daughter her name is rose.

So Peter told henry i will do it, and as my companion this time will put your daughter on my back, so henry got stunned for sometime, no she is a girl, yours was a boy, to this peter replied back, my son was not tied on my back, but i will tie your daughter who was 9 years old front and bring her down safely.

Henry said no.Peter asked him again, you believe me right i can do it, than why do you hesitate.Henry still said no, and he left the stage along with his daughter.The cheque of $200,000 was handed over to Peter.Next day in every news peter was shown as a BRAVE MAN who won $200,000.

Peter was than called by many television producers on their shows, and  never looked back again and his life totally changed.

WHAT WE CAN LEARN FROM ABOVE SHORT STORY :-

In life it is very easy to believe but to trust its not easy.Often people get confuse between this two,trust and believe.From the above story people believed Peter after the task, that he can come all the way in a single rope from 100th floor till the ground but when he asked people to send their child to do the act again, no one was ready, it means people believed him but still did not trust him.

1. Build your Trust and make it strong:- 

People all believed and clapped for peter, but no one was ready to give their child to peter to do the task again.Even when peter said he will tie rose on his chest still her dad henry said no.

Thats exactly what happens when we pray to god.We say we believe in god, but even after praying so much still if things go wrong, we say i knew it, nothing would happen it is a waste of time.

TRUST  means fully surrendering yourself . It means you have a full confidence on the person that nothing can ever go wrong, or this person can never do any wrong things.

In our lives if we need to get better in our relationship with god, totally surrender yourself and confidently believe god.God is always there in every step of your life and progress boldly, If you come across problems, understand god is making you ready for the bigger challenges, that may come later in your life.

2. Learn from your problems :-

Every problem that we go through there is something to learn from it.If you are going through a financial problem you will learn how to spend less, how to manage your expenses in less money and still be happy.

If problem is in your relationship, if you are into living relationship and if your partner is cheating on you, may be your partner is not the right person for you, rather than sitting and crying ignore the past and move ahead in life by finding someone else better.

If problem is relating to your career may be something better is waiting for you, just trust god surrender yourself to god and keep trying what you really love you will certainly get it.

Let me give you another example :- 

You  have a friend on one side and your spouse on the other side, and you have $50,000 in your account and you need to transfer money immediately to someone else and your spouse is busy, and you are not well you had an accident, so cannot do yourself,will you feel comfortable to share your bank details to your friend and tell them to transfer or will you still wait for your spouse to get free, and than you tell your spouse to do the transfer. 

Everyone mostly would go with the second option of telling their spouse to transfer.You choose your spouse because you know them well and you have confidence that nothing may go wrong since you have totally surendered your trust on your spouse.

When comes to your friend, you just know that he or she is good person, but no one would like to share their financial matters to anyone outsider, even when we know them well.

CONCLUSION :-  Just by believing you don't be a champion, you need to surrender yourself fully to become a chmapion again and again. When you fail but by not giving up you will certainly progress..Keep doing it until you get it.Never lose hope.Example When you are running a race and if you get tired the half way and stop, someone else will overtake you, so keep running.